Strategies For The Battle Weary

“Why, my soul, are you downcast?  Why so disturbed within me?  Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God.”  Psalm 43:5

Earlier this week I had come across an article that described how hundreds of children were executed by Isis, by being fed into an industrial style bread kneader….

Reading about such cruelty and depravity repulsed me to such a degree me that I let out an audible groan while my heart sank.  As I pulled back from my computer monitor, I turned to God and honestly expressed myself with the following, “You know Lord, I’m so tired of hearing about all of this wickedness in the world….I’m totally okay with you taking me home early….”  A moment of weakness.  A moment of longing.  It’s in these moments that I truly recognize that ultimately, I really don’t belong here (in a “this is my home” sense) and am here to fulfill God’s purpose for me, in such a time as this.  Peter reminds his reader of this as well:

“Beloved, I urge you as aliens and strangers….”  (1 Peter 2:11)

Aliens and strangers….that is what the faithful are, in this place and in this age.  We can feel it at every turn.  The things our culture celebrates…how often do our hearts cry out, “No, you’ve got it wrong.  If you could only see the end of your path….”

Yet Jesus calls us to a victorious mindset and life:

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”  (John 10:10)

This fullness of life doesn’t only happen once we pass into eternity.  It is meant to begin here, in the midst of the battle.  The question is, what can we do?  What plan can we implement that can help pull us back up and continue to fight the good fight to which He has called us?

Now before we dive in, I think it is of utmost importance to recognize that the battle is the Lord’s, not ours.  Any strategy we may come up with here or otherwise will never be effective if based in our own strength alone.  It is only because of His grace, mercy, strength and love that we have the opportunity to play a role.  With this in mind, let’s get started:

  1.  Guard your heart.  I believe we need to start here.  “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”  Proverbs 4:23  Be aware of your heart and spiritual condition.  You do need to, nor should you, take “ownership” of everything that is presented to you without first asking God for the wisdom to discern it (and then to act on that discernment).  This takes regular sessions of introspection and while this may come more natural to some, it may be more of a practiced discipline for others.  Nevertheless, I would encourage you to do this, at least every now and again.
  2. To piggyback on point #1:  As you “guard your heart,” be purposeful in your love.  “Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold….”  I don’t know about you, but I can easily see my heart taking the path of least resistance when faced with the growing darkness, if I allow myself to do so.  Take a spiritual inventory. Ask God to reveal and weed out any lingering malice, anger, indifference, bitterness, unforgiveness or cynicism that has taken root.  I believe that if these particular elements are left unchecked, that is the path by which the love within us can slowly and subtly grow cold.  Be determined not to be one of the “most” that scripture has pointed out!  If any of these elements are brought to light in your life, combat that mindset with acts of love towards those around you.  Look for those that might need a kind word, need help with a task or could just use some quality time over coffee.  These seemingly small acts of friendship can help keep the hearts of both you and the other person, pliable and usable by God.
  3. Unplug.  About a year or so ago I had read through a book about the purpose of fasting.  One of the things the author brought up is that when we fast physically, it can heighten our awareness of and our focus on God.  She went on to say that we are less distracted and can hear God more clearly as we seek Him, while in a state of fasting.  While fasting is often focused on food/water, she brought up something new that I took to heart.  Fasting from media.  If we’re honest with ourselves, many can probably attest to how hooked we are to our media, especially our social media.  How many times have you awakened at 3 a.m. and figured that you would just check your Facebook or IG account?  Without getting into the whole dopamine/addictive/compulsive side of the equation, how often do we allow this to get in the way of potential quality time with God?  Fasting from media can also take you away from the flow of negativity you may see in your newsfeed or on television.  How often you “fast” in this regard is up to you.  You might consider limiting the time you spend on your FB/IG accounts per day.  You could potentially take one day a week, log out for the day and set aside a “refresher” time with God instead.  The options are many.  Take some time to think about this and set up a plan.   Whatever it is, make the “fast” a regular part of your schedule….and then post about it on FB in order to encourage others to do the same….#kiddingnotkidding
  4. Surround yourself with positive and encouraging people.  This can come in many unique and possibly overlapping forms.  Teammates, work colleagues, classmates, fitness groups, weekly Bible study or reading groups…whatever it is, the key is to seek out people that are either on the same or a similar mission as you are and spend time with them.  Invest in those relationships!
  5. Approach the throne with humility.  When was the last time you took up a humble position during prayer?  Maybe it was on your knees when you prayed with your kiddos before bedtime? (this is a great example to your kids, by the way….if you do this then <high five>)  In my own prayer life I have learned that my physical approach to prayer truly effects my focus and heart.  I have found that one of the  best times for me is after my son has gone to bed.  I will go downstairs, turn the lights off and either kneel, sit or lay prostrate on the floor, in front of the window….Warning:  this can unintentionally FREAK your child out if they happen to wander in….but I digress.  Seriously though, try this and see if it doesn’t have a positive effect on the quality of your prayer time.

Continue to battle but do what you need to do to take care of yourself as well.  A healthy warrior is much more effective on the battlefield than a wounded one.  Stay in the fight….

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.  In this world you will have trouble.  But take heart!  I have overcome the world.”  (Jesus speaking in John 6:33)



Breaking the Gray

“The first place we lose the battle is in our own thinking.  If you think it’s permanent then it’s permanent.  If you think you’ve reached your limits then you have.  If you think you’ll never get well then you won’t.  You have to change your thinking.  You need to see everything that’s holding you back.  Every obstacle, every limitation is only temporary.” 

Living in the Pacific Northwest you learn to expect the clouds.  Here we are on June 11th and this morning it was 46 degrees and overcast.  For a California native this took quite awhile to get acclimated to when we moved up here.  In fact, when we first moved here I distinctly remember searching the gray sky for little patches of blue just to remind myself that it was still up there, hidden behind the clouds.

Much like searching for patches of blue sky on a dreary afternoon to help lift our spirits, how much more important is it to search for God’s light and presence when we’re going through a storm of our own.  Here are a few tips that we can apply that can help us refocus our perspective:

  1.  This particular season of your life might be a surprise to you but it’s not a surprise to Him.  He wasn’t caught off guard like you may have been.  I heard a wise pastor say recently that if you reach this storm and you frantically say, “God help me, God help me, God help me,”  this isn’t necessarily faith but more of a panic attack.  Instead if we can exercise our faith by taking a deep breath, slowing our minds down and calmly saying, “God I know that I can’t do this alone and I need your help.  I don’t know how You’re going to do it but I’m looking forward to seeing what You are going to do!”
  2.  Remember that this season will not last forever.  In the whole scheme of eternity, this time of struggle is merely a breath.  The enemies’ attacks are often unrelenting during this time as he will try and take you out while you’re down.  Pray that God would crush the purposes of the enemy and that God’s purposes would be fulfilled as you make your way down this path.  Also look for God to show up through encouraging words from strangers/friends, during your time in the Word and during prayer.  Arm yourself with simple reminders like a “verse of the day” app on your phone and go to it throughout the day.  Keep the conversation with God flowing.
  3.  You are not abandoned.  God is a good Father and He is with you.  It may be a time of testing and you may not be able to discern His presence (the teacher is always quiet during a test) but He is always there.  There may also be ministering angels sent by Him to protect and strengthen you.  Continue to look up to Him and be on the lookout for those “patches of blue.”  Let them be reminders that beyond the gray clouds is a majestic, bright beautiful blue sky.  Even when we can’t see it, it is a constant.  It is always there.
  4.  Reach out to friends and family.  Don’t just text, IM or email.  This type of communication lacks the intimacy that you may need.  Some studies show that electronic communication may even make you feel more isolated and disconnected.  Call them on the phone and grab a beer or cup of coffee.  Plan a fun night out.  Break up the ordinary and surround yourself with positive people!
  5.  Break a sweat. Lift weights, learn martial arts or some sort of combat sport (boxing, jiu-jitsu, Krav Maga, etc.), go for a run, bike ride or swim.  Play basketball, do yard work or do a yoga style workout.  The important thing is to find something that you enjoy and get your heart rate up.  Get those endorphins flowing!  This may be very tough to start but once you finish you’ll be glad you did it.
  6.  Make a “to do” list.  Fill it with “micro” goals (ex. 20 minute jog before work) and “macro” goals (ex. read one chapter in the Bible every day that week). Plan your day/week in advance and crush those goals!  The list will help keep you dialed in and focused.
  7.  Stay positive and practice positive self talk.  Say to yourself, “This sucks but I know that it is not the end of my story and God will get me through it,” or “What the devil meant for evil, God will make something good from it.” (see Genesis 50:20)  Also remind yourself that your spiritual enemy is a defeated enemy and that he can only try and make your life miserable for a time.  With respect, you can tell him that he has no real power over you, that you belong to Jesus and that their time is short.  I always like to remind them of that.

Stay in the fight, my friend.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”   Romans 8:28

A Legacy Revised

“When you are forgotten, or neglected, or purposely set at naught, and you don’t sting and hurt with the insult or the oversight, but your heart is happy being counted worthy to suffer for Christ, THAT IS DYING TO SELF.”  Nicoletta Ceccoli

Early yesterday morning, two friends and I were discussing Joseph of Arimathea, over coffee.  For those that may not be familiar with him, he was the man who took the body of Jesus down from the cross and laid it in the tomb.  Often times this is as far as we sojourn when we think about Joseph.  But let’s dig a little bit deeper….

JoA (as I will now call him) was a wealthy and revered member of the high council of Jewish religious leaders there in Jerusalem at the time.  Being in this position JoA would have been exposed to Jesus’ speaking and teaching in the Temple throughout His earthly ministry.  Surely, he had been an eye witness to the set-up of Jesus by the Pharisees and heard the false accusations during the mock trial.  He very well may have stood at a distance as Jesus was flogged, beaten, crucified, cried out to His Father, prayed for those who were torturing Him, encouraged the thief next to Him and watched Him take his final breath.  He also would have been on hand when impending darkness covered the land and the earthquake struck when Jesus gave up His Spirit, causing the curtain of the Temple to be torn in two.  Scripture also points out an interesting tidbit regarding JoA’s heart, “….and he was waiting for the Kingdom of God to come.” (Mark 15:43 b)  So here we have a God fearing man, actively waiting for the Kingdom of God to be revealed AND watching all of these things go on around him….

It is safe to say that God was active and at work in this man’s life.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.  ‘I will be found by you,’ declares the Lord….”  Jeremiah 29:13 & 14(b)

Have you ever visited the graves of those that were held in high esteem?  Often times these opulent places represent how the person wanted to be remembered.  They can be a way for an individual to frame their own legacy for future generations.  Being the wealthy and respected religious leader that he was, JoA had done the same.  He had pre purchased his “garden” tomb, which in his mind would make a final and lasting statement regarding the legacy he wanted to leave behind.  That is, until something drastically changed in Joseph one Friday afternoon….

“As evening approached, Joseph of Arimathea took a risk and went to Pilate and asked for Jesus’ body.  Mark 15:  42(b) & 43

While the other Pharisees were most likely gloating over the death of Jesus, JoA decided to break rank and directly approach the prefect who had sentenced Jesus to death just hours earlier.  By doing this, JoA was putting his career and livelihood on the line.

“Joseph bought a long sheet of linen cloth.  Then he took Jesus’ body down from the cross, wrapped it in the cloth, and laid it in a tomb that had been carved out of the rock.  Then he rolled a stone in front of the entrance.  Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of Joseph saw where Jesus’ body was laid.”  Mark 15:  46 & 47

JoA took the time and made the effort to not only to do the messy work of removing Jesus from the cross but also to give Jesus a proper burial before the Sabbath….using the tomb that he had purchased.  The tomb that would have been his own final resting place, legacy, place of honor and remembrance….he gave it to Jesus.  Why did he do this?

We can only speculate but I believe that he understood who Jesus was.  Being convicted by what he had seen and experienced that fateful day, he recognized that it was not he but Jesus who was worthy of being laid in that place of honor.  It was Jesus that deserved to be remembered not only for the life that He had lived but also because He had willingly laid down that life as the sacrificial Lamb of God.  It was Jesus who deserved what he originally thought would have been his lasting legacy in that peaceful garden setting.  I can’t help but also recognize how God honored JoA by having him specifically included, by name, in this account.  JoA’s legacy, which otherwise would have died within a few hundred years of his own death (or less) is now remembered through the millennia for his humble actions.   

So what can we do with this?

I would encourage you to be honest with yourself as you consider these questions:  How do we treat Jesus in this regard?  If we look at our own lives, is He on the throne or are we?  Are we solely focused on building our own legacy or do we honor Him first?  Do we wrestle within ourselves to put Him in the place of prominence in our lives by how we live, act, speak and steward our blessings or do we just try to inflate our own ego and somehow dominate those around us?

“He must become greater, I must become less.”  -John the Baptist (John 3:30)

It is of critical importance to take stock of where you are.  If you recognize that your life is built to be more about you than Jesus, ask God to forgive you and to help you have the proper heart and perspective, along with the strength to follow through in regards to those convictions.  Ask Him to give you the vision and strength to honor Him each day.  Are you ready?  If so, it’s time to step forward.

“When you plant a seed, it must die before it starts a new life.”  1 Corinthians 15:36


Against The Grain

“A lie doesn’t become truth, a wrong doesn’t become right and evil doesn’t become good, just because it’s accepted by the majority.” 

I was working in San Francisco this past week and while it was nice to be “home” (I grew up in the area), the one thing that I didn’t miss was the pretentiousness that permeates the culture there.  I discern it as a sticky sap that covers the spiritual realm.  Our natural human condition celebrates “pride” as a positive character attribute and San Francisco places it on such a high pedestal that I’m even willing to call it idolatry in the form of “self worship.”  If there is a specific territorial spirit of pride then it took up residence in the city of San Francisco ages ago.

“Pride is a corrosive agent that permeates the fallen nature and, if left undetected, will gradually destroy the soul.”  Steve Gallagher

As I was walking towards Market Street for an early morning meeting, I noticed something that struck me….I was walking on the outer edge of the sidewalk and was literally the only person headed in that particular direction.  There was not one individual ahead of me that was going the same way.  Everyone else was headed past me in the opposite direction.  As I recognized this, a verse flashed through my mind:

“Enter through the narrow gate.  For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it.  But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.”  Matthew 7:13 and 14

I then really began to take notice of those that walked past me.  I saw the well dressed young professionals, the bedraggled poor and all of those in between, going about their business.  Male and female of all ages and races.  Most had their earbuds in or were dialed into their phones.  In one way or another, all seemed plugged into the “Matrix.”  Then the thoughts flooded my consciousness….They’re not even aware of the path that they’re on.  They have no thought of their eternity or where they’ll spend it.  They are indifferent to God and give no real thought of Him.  Many embrace the culture here that is against God’s very statutes….

“There is no fear of God before their eyes.”  Romans 3:18 

A couple of years back I had read a book about a gentleman that says he had experienced Hell during a near death experience.  I remember him describing how, while there, he would see person after person after person tumbling through an opening into that place.  A never ending stream of people falling into eternal torment for refusing to be covered by the blood of the Lamb, who willingly and in love, gave Himself as a sacrifice for them….but they rejected the offering made on their behalf.  Instead they chose to embrace their self sufficiency…their pride….

“Abandon all hope, ye who enter here.” (Dante’s Inferno)

So, what can we as believers do?

“….let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”  Matthew 5:16

First be willing to be available.  Secondly, pray expectantly that God will use you for His purposes.  Thirdly, “keep your lamp lit” and be mindful and watchful for opportunities.  When they reveal themselves, act!  They may be small acts of kindness or a bold sharing of something that the Holy Spirit has moved you to say to a complete stranger.  Whatever it is, be determined to be faithful.  What you do or say could be the direct answer to their prayer.

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self discipline.”  2 Timothy 1:7

THIS is the battlefield on which we fight for the souls of men.

Continue to express and share the love of Jesus with those you interact with and pray for them.  Let God direct your steps in the battle.  He will guide you to be in the right place at the right time.

Don’t shrink away in fear.  Move out in faith.  He has your six.

“I love a commodious room, a soft cushion, a handsome pulpit.  But where is my zeal if I do not trample all these underfoot in order to save one more soul?”  John Wesley

Slaying Dragons

“For You have girded me with strength for battle….”  Psalm 18:39(a)

Let me me start by saying that I consider myself, by nature and His grace, the eternal optimist.  If there’s a silver lining in a situation, I will hunt it down and make it my own.  However when I woke up this morning the feeling was quite different.  I was met with a ferocious, internal negativity both in my mind and attitude.  The enemy was at work, preying on my stresses, concerns and other chinks he must have found in my armor.  He had worked his way in and was twisting the knife.

Now I have been around this block enough times to understand and know to expect these moments.  If the enemy of our souls sees a way to get into the life of a believer, he will try and exploit it to the highest degree.  Recognizing my state of mind, I quickly got up, showered and left the house, as I knew I wouldn’t be of any good to anyone until I was able to clear my head.

So….I did my grocery shopping and exchanged pleasantries with people at the store.  Even that helped take the edge off a bit.  I knew I still wasn’t yet ready to “engage” anyone with any depth, so I headed across the street to Starbucks for an iced coffee and to dig into His Word.  As I was driving, I passed a homeless Army vet who looked to be somewhere in his mid 30’s.  He was walking on a prosthetic limb and carrying everything he owned on his back.  My heart went out to him and I thought about how shameful it is that we as a nation somehow allow this to happen….more on him later.

I sat down at the corner table by the window and opened the Bible app on my phone.  What to read….  If I’m being completely transparent with you, at these times it’s often hard for me to find the motivation to pick anything in particular.  Maybe you’ve been there?  So I treated it like I do my exercise program.  I just dug in and did it.  1 Corinthians 13, came to mind.  You know the one?  The famous chapter about love.  The fact that it was so out of left field with how I was feeling at that moment, I was being Coached and I knew it.  Alright let’s go….

“Love is patient and kind.  Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.  It does not demand its own way.  It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.  It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.  Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

If you’ve ever done any physical resistance training (weight training, etc.) you will do multiple sets of the same exercise to fatigue your muscles and cause them to get stronger over time.  I often apply the same principle to my “spiritual workouts” and I will re-read the passage multiple times.  Each repetition works it’s way deeper into my heart to do it’s mighty work….and I felt my spirit began to lift.  At that moment I was just grateful to be out of the pit I had awakened in.

I finished my coffee and started back out to my car.  “I wonder if he’s still out here?” I thought to myself.  I looked around the corner of the building and sure enough, the Army vet I had seen earlier was standing on the corner, asking for help.

One of the “weapons” that I find helps in these battles (and helps me get out of my own head), is to focus on somehow being a blessing to someone else.  I highly recommend this for anyone to try.  I’m sure it upsets our spiritual enemy to no end, which gives me further motivation and even greater satisfaction.

I ran back into Starbucks, grabbed a gift card and walked over to him.  A hearty “No way!” was followed by a giant bear hug as I gave him the card.  We shared a great conversation, talked about the crazy hot weather here in the valley….and I managed to complain about our air conditioner being out yesterday…to someone that had nothing….  He and I both had a laugh about that.  We talked for awhile longer and as we parted ways, I prayed for him.  That he would be strengthened and  blessed and reminded of Jesus’ love.  By the end, we both had tears in our eyes….

As I drove away, I recognized that God had completely changed my perspective.  He had slain the dragon in my mind.  He orchestrated a situation by which, I believe, He was working not only in my life but in the lives of two of his kids.  By lining things up just the way He did, He encouraged us both (there’s that silver lining I was talking about)!  I would encourage you to see Him in the beauty of these “smaller” moments and interactions as well.  His ways are beyond our ways and He never fails to pleasantly surprise us, if we pay attention.  Like the song says, “He’s a good, good Father….”

In case you haven’t heard this yet today, He LOVES YOU too!  Stay the course.  Keep looking up.


First Step Through The Door

“Seeing that a Pilot steers the ship in which we sail, who will never allow us to perish even in the midst of shipwreck; there is no reason why our minds should be overwhelmed with fear and overcome with weariness.”  John Calvin

My 5:30 a.m. alarm came early this morning.  As I slowly came to consciousness, I picked up my phone and the first headline I read through bleary eyes was “Soundgarden singer Chris Cornell dead at age 52″….  At first I thought that it couldn’t be true.  It didn’t take long to realize that this was no joke.  If you follow him on Facebook, you know that he was often one to talk about his love for his kids.  As a singer and musician myself, I held his unique talent in high regard.  His vocal control and phrasing were absolute gifts from the Creator.  In my humble opinion, he was the biggest talent to come out of that early 90’s Seattle scene.

“Your talent is God’s gift to you.  What you do with it is your gift back to God.”  Leo Buscaglia

As the day progressed and further details came together, more news came, “Singer Chris Cornell’s death ruled a suicide”…. In a video clip taken during the last song of what would be his final show he can be heard saying, “Jesus come meet me….”  So this gifted man, made in God’s own image (as all of humanity is) decided to close the book on his life early.  This will forever be part of his legacy….

I am not as concerned about the legacy left with the fans as I am about the legacy of brokenness now thrust upon his family.  Tragically, the consequences of Chris’s actions will have on effect on them for generations.  In the world’s eyes he had it all.  So what happened?  How are we supposed to make sense of this?  How can it happen to him, or any of us for that matter?  (Note:  What I am about to say is not specific to Chris, as I don’t know what he believed or what he was going through that drove him to make the decision he made.  That being said, I do believe we can learn from this tragedy, based on our common human experience.)

If we are caught up in sin, especially habitual sin we should be very wary of where that can lead.  Though it seems harmless at first, once that seed bears it’s fruit, it will shackle us in darkness.  Pick your poison.  There are many to choose from.  This is a trap that our spiritual enemy has set for thousands of years.  He’s watched our ancestors and every generation afterwards.  He knows who we come from and how we’re wired and he has set the extremely subtle slippery slope before us.  He’s patient.  One choice at a time, he will do his damnedest to lead us where he wants us to go.

“They enjoyed the sweet taste of wickedness, letting it melt under the tongue.  They savored it, holding it long in their mouths.  But suddenly the food in their bellies turns sour, a poisonous venom in their stomach.”  Job 20:12-14

Another poignant warning we read in scripture that we should all take heed of is:

“Do not be deceived:  God cannot be mocked.  A man reaps what he sows.”  Galatians 6:7

Whether we play with the darkness over time or embrace it eagerly, it will destroy us.  Not just in this life but it will rob us in the next as well.  And that loss will be far worse.  So what are these things to be aware of?  Let’s look to scripture:

“Do not be deceived:  neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, not adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.”  1 Corinthians 6:9-10

The end game of those practices is demonic oppression, spiritual bondage and hopelessness.  Now I don’t know about you but in one way or another, that list contains everyone I know, including myself.  In my natural state, without help, I will never enter Heaven.  I’m guilty and I know it….without a doubt.   Again if we look to scripture this is confirmed:

“….for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God….”  Romans 3:23

As we can see in the headlines we read everyday, hopelessness is very powerful and it has a tight grip on much of humanity.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.  Though our spiritual adversary would whisper that we are worthless and alone, Jesus would counter his lies…. ‘No!  I bought you with my blood and you are not your own, but mine!  While you were still a sinner, I died for you!’ (see Galatians 3:13-15 and Romans 5:8)

You are deeply, deeply loved by Jesus.  Chris Cornell was as well.  Maybe he just never truly knew how much….  If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, recognize the enemy is setting the trap.  He hates God and therefore he hates you.  Don’t let him win and shape your legacy.  You may think people would be better off without you, but again, that is a lie and just the opposite is true.  I would encourage you to write down the following verses and meditate on the truth of God’s very Word to you:

“So do not fear, for I am with you, do not be dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”  Isaiah 41:10

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.  Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all.”  Psalm 34:18-19

“You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you (the Holy Spirit) is greater than the one who is in the world (spirits of darkness).”  1 John 4:4

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”  Jeremiah 29:11

“We wait in hope for the Lord; He is our help and our shield.”  Psalm 33:20

“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.”  Hebrews 10:23

Commit to fighting.  Commit to allowing God to finish His good work in you and fulfilling your destiny.  If you are caught up in sin, turn your back on it and walk away from it.  Tell Jesus you need Him and ask Him for help.  Ask God to change the desires of your heart so that you do not want to go back to whatever “that” might be in your life.  Tell the devil that you belong to Someone else now and that is Jesus Christ.  Commit to only taking the first step through the door of eternity when He decides your time is up.  Finish the race set before you.  You’re not alone, my friend.  You’re not alone.  Jesus is with you, as are His ministering angels that also battle on your behalf.

You. Can. Do. This.

“The struggle you’re in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow.”

May He be your strength and peace.  In Jesus’ name I pray.  Amen.


Evaluating Life, Among The Dead

“What we do in life, echoes in eternity.”  Russell Crowe (Gladiator)

If you’ve ever been interested in psychology then you’re probably familiar with the “Myers Briggs Personality Types.”  I’ve always tested as an INFJ, which has the illustrious distinction of being 0.5% of all males on the face of the earth….I’ll let you decide if that is a good thing or not.  😀  INFJ’s are known as the most social of the introverts.  We love our time with those close to us and diving headfirst into the deep waters of conversation.  However as with all introverts, while being social can be a great time, it is also tiring and we need to take time to retreat to “lonely places” in order to refill our tanks and re-charge before heading out again.

“Yet the news about him spread all the more, so that crowds of people came to hear him and be healed of their sicknesses.  But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”  Luke 5:15 & 16

Once I reached the age when my mom would allow me to take off on my bike around the area I grew up in, one of the places I would escape to was the local cemetery.  Before you think “How morbid,” it really wasn’t at all in my mind.  I think that what drew me to that particular place was a combination of my affinity for B movies involving zombies and vampires along with the fact that it was one of the most tranquil places that I could find.

I can remember looking around at the various plots, thinking about how each one of those tombstones and grave markers was a representation of what was once a living and breathing life.  I would reflect on what type of person they might have been and I assumed that if a family was grouped together, they must have really loved each other while they were alive.  For that reason, I would usually choose to sit in the midst of a family, as if remnants of that love would still be hanging in the air around me.  I would sometimes observe the oldest grave in the family plot and imagine the grieving individuals standing where I was, remembering their loved one.  Would they visit daily or weekly?  I couldn’t help but wonder if at those moments, might they have processed their own mortality and made the connection that one day they would be laid to rest in the exact same place?

“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”  Psalm 90:12

I still visit cemeteries from time to time and I still appreciate the perspective that it gives me.  I recognize that if I live the average life span, I already have more years behind me than ahead of me.  This thought isn’t depressing to me.  I’m grateful and hopeful!  As long as I draw breath, I have purpose here.  You see, the most important mark on any tombstone is that dash between the year you were born and the year you transition into eternity.  That simple dash represents your life and everything you do with it.

“What is your life?  You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”  James 4:14 (b)

How are you stewarding the life God has blessed you with?  How are you investing your time, treasure and talents?  Are you spending your days worrying, being critical towards yourself and others and following the crowd?  Or are you setting yourself above the fray, in order to pour into the lives of others and reflect the Hope that is in you (through Christ’s work in your life)?  We may not think about this much but as a Christ follower we are all missionaries wherever God has placed us.  In His sovereign wisdom, He has put us in this specific place, in this specific time in His story to be a part of His work in the world.  The circle of influence we have along with the relationships that surround us in our day to day lives….this is our mission field.  This is our calling.

I am reminded of the scene at the end of “Saving Private Ryan”:

The aged James Ryan (addressing Captain Miller’s grave):  “My family is with me today.  They wanted to come with me.  To be honest with you, I wasn’t sure how I’d feel coming back here.  Every day I think about what you said to me that day on the bridge.  I tried to live my life the best that I could.  I hope that was enough.  I hope that, at least in your eyes, I’ve earned what you have done for me….”

Take stock of your days.  Even if you’re young (in the world’s definition of the word), your days are fleeting.  Make them count.  Do good for the sake of doing good.  Be kind.  Stay humble.  Practice thankfulness.  Glorify God with how you live your life.  Talk to Jesus.  Give more than you take and if you’re blessed with much, give much!  Not just with your finances but with your time and with your love.  Check your heart, your motivation and intentions.  Don’t just do it for the tax write off.    SHINE….as you were meant and designed to do.

“He has shown you, o mortal, what is good.  And what does the Lord require of you?  To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”  Mich 6:8

“Every man dies but not every man really lives.”  Mel Gibson (Braveheart)

Embrace The Grind (III: Staying One Step Ahead)

“It takes discipline to focus only on high-value targets instead of giving in to the temptation of the low-hanging fruit life serves up daily.”  Mark Divine (“The Way of the SEAL:  Think Like an Elite Soldier to Lead and Succeed”)

In our “fly by night” culture it is easy to get swept away by the waves of “busyness.”  When this happens, the days can easily turn to weeks, the weeks to months and the months to years and we can find ourselves dissatisfied with our lack of progress in one or possibly many ares of our lives.  If we don’t press “pause” on a regular basis, we can easily lose our focus and direction.  Below are a few practical steps that we can implement to stay the course:

  1.  Set daily goals (glorified “to do” list).  I find the ideal time to do this is before I get into bed.  I will grab a pen and paper and jot down what I want to get accomplished the following day.  The can be as general or specific as you need them to be.  For example a recent list of mine included:  workout (before work), drop off donations to library and Gospel Mission, enter new business contacts in database, clean desk, clean bathroom (they don’t have to be glamorous goals), follow up call to a particular client, set up email on new phone, quiet time with God and call my brother.  I will try and look for balance in my daily goals (physical, spiritual, relational, practical, etc.)  If I see that I’m too heavy in one area I will add something to get things in balance.
  2. Determine your mental outlook prior to diving into your day.  When you wake up, remind yourself of your blessings (I want you to literally pause and thank God for them by name) and be determined to be a blessing to others.  I often find myself doing this on the treadmill while warming up for my workout that morning….two birds, one stone.  The world is filled with negativity.  Ask God to help you be a light in the darkness and no matter how you “feel,” be positive in your interactions (acknowledge hardships, the reality of a bad day, etc. with others but search for that silver lining).  I have found that most of the time my day will follow my mindset.  This isn’t about being “fake.”  Again, acknowledge and validate yourself if you’re feeling stressed or bad about something but be determined not to stay there for too long.  Get your mind right.  God loves you and is control even when it’s brutally hard.  Set your feet on the Rock.  “The rain came down, the streams rose, and the wind blew against that house, yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.”  Matthew 7:25
  3. Be available.  Although we make plans, God may have other ideas.  Be ready for God’s detours because they will happen.  His ways are higher than our ways.  So go ahead and plan but hold onto it with an open hand.  As I tell my 10 year old son:  Keep a “squishy brain” (be flexible and able to roll with the punches and changes that can happen during the course of a day).
  4. Practice grace.  I’ve found that the hardest person to offer grace to is myself.  If we don’t get through our daily goals it is easy to be hard on ourselves.  Give yourself some leeway and just add the item to tomorrow’s list.  Checking off the list itself is not the goal.  The true goal is where the list (the cumulative effect of our daily goals) can take us and what our goals can develop in us.

“Success is nothing more than a few simple disciplines, practiced every day.”  Jim Rohn

“You are the light of the world.  A town built on a hill cannot be hidden.  Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl.  Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to  everyone in the house.”  Matthew 5:14 & 15


The Train Ride

“You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be.”  Wayne Dyer

Last night I had a dream that really rattled me.

I was riding on a train.  As I was standing amongst the other passengers, I began to take notice of all the people that were standing and seated around me.  They varied in age and ethnic background.  There were old and young; couples, students and commuters.  What jumped out to me was the palpable feeling of hopelessness in their faces.  It was as if the entire train was completely downcast….

“Why, my soul, are you downcast?  Why so disturbed within me?  Put your hope in God; for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God.”  Psalm 42:5

I began to walk down the aisle and question the entire train.  “What’s wrong?  Are you okay?”  With a defeated look and and seemingly resigned to their fate, the unanimous response came:  “This train is going to explode and there is nothing we can do about it….”  I responded “Where is the emergency brake?  There is a way to stop this.”  As happens in dreams, I immediately found a cord and pulled it.

Moments later the train pulled into an empty station and the doors slid open.  As I backed out through the doors I pleaded with the other passengers, “C’mon!  The doors are open!  Get off the train!”  Not one person moved or even looked up.  It was as if I had become invisible.  The doors began to slide shut again and I desperately tried to hold them open, while frantically shouting, “Now is your chance!  Get off of the train!”  It was no use and after a few seconds I could not manage to hold the doors open any longer….and they slid closed in front of me.  I watched the train pull away from the station and after traveling about 100 yards down the track, it exploded into a huge ball of fire….

Over the course of my walk with Jesus I have been blessed with the opportunity to talk with many people about the hope of the Gospel message.  I don’t “confront” anyone.  Instead, I just try and engage people in conversation.  My hope is that I would feel approachable to them and that I would simply be able to meet people where they are.  I will often listen to their story and then share the hope we have through Jesus.  A hope that is so far beyond our present circumstances.  Many react with either a passive indifference or a visceral “anti-religion” response to which I gently counter with, “It’s not about religion, it’s about Jesus.” This comment often stuns them into a momentary silence.

Most have never thought about Jesus outside of the religious box that they’ve put Him in and they will sometimes equate Him to their negative or hurtful experiences with hypocritical Christians (not to burst anyone’s bubble but we’re all hypocrites at some point) or failures of the churches.  I politely remind them that it seems as if they’ve put their faith in the institution rather than the Man Himself.  They are not one and the same.  Sorry for the bit of a rabbit trail there….let’s get back on track….(see what I did there….?)  😀

The responses I tend to personally struggle with the most are those that recognize their need…”I know I’m a sinner” or  “I’m lost,” but they don’t want to change their course.  They see the need for a Savior but in their pride they don’t want to turn away from the things that are destroying their souls….so down the tracks they travel….

“Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.  This is the verdict:  Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.  Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed”  John 3:18-20

How about you?  The doors of the train car are being held open for each of us but there is a limited amount of time for us to leave our seat and step off of the train.  You don’t have to be “good enough” to come to Jesus.  You can come with whatever past (or present) you drag behind you.  He will not turn you away.  He went to extreme lengths to be able to redeem you and to offer you a relationship with the Father.  He is the ONLY way to the Father.  Jesus Himself said that ‘I am the way, the truth and the life.  No one comes to the Father, except through me.’ (John 14:6) 

Let me emphasize this point:  You have no eternal hope without Christ.  No religious tradition (even “Christianity,” in a purely religious sense)….

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.  Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’  Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you.  Away from me, you evildoers!’  Matthew 7:21-23

….nor doing more “good” than bad will tip the scales in your favor.  Its not about what we can do in our own perceived self-righteousness.  This is the fruit of the “religious.”  It is only about what Jesus has done on our behalf.  We just need to be humble, recognize our need for Jesus to save us, be wiling to get off the train (turn from our sin) and respond to His invitation of salvation.  Picture it this way:

Imagine knocking on a stranger’s door one evening.  The door opens and you ask the owner of the house if you can come in and have dinner with he and his family.  Is he just going to let you in?

Now imagine your best friend inviting you over to his house to have dinner and meet his father and family.  Because you are friends with his son, you will be an honored guest of the father.  It’s who you know that makes all of the difference! 

Now please, please get off of the train….

“People will not be in Hell because God did not want them, but because they did not want God.” 


Pile of Stones

“Two things define you.  Your patience when you have nothing and your attitude when you have everything.”

As we traverse through life, it does not take long for us to realize that despite our best efforts, we will experience both the victorious “mountaintop,” where we see God’s hand clearly guiding us and the dark “valleys” where we can barely (if at all) perceive God’s presence.  I remember one such moment very clearly:

The sunshine streamed through the window and I was busily working away at my home office.  I received a phone call from a client informing me that an important project had unexpectedly gone completely sideways.  I had missed a small detail and the resulting consequence was completely on me.  I was so disappointed in myself that a wave of despair washed over me and completely and immediately sapped me of any energy.  This was a first but I remember saying to myself “I’m done,” got up from my desk, went to my bedroom, closed the blinds and got into bed.  As I was about to drift off to sleep I grabbed my well worn Bible and managed to find the strength to ask God to give me a Word.  I haphazardly opened the scriptures and this is where my eyes immediately fell:

“Have I not commanded you?  Be strong and courageous.  Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”  Joshua 1:9

At that moment the only thing I could do was completely surrender it to God and fall fast asleep….

“When all the people had crossed the Jordan, the Lord said to Joshua, ‘Now choose twelve men….take twelve stones from the very place where the priests are standing in the middle of the Jordan.  Carry them out and pile them up at the place where you will camp tonight’….We will use these stones to build a memorial.  In the future your children will ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’  Then you can tell them, ‘They remind us that the Jordan River stopped flowing when the Ark of the Lord’s Covenant went across.’  These stones will stand as a memorial among the people of Israel forever.'”  (taken from Joshua, chapter 4)

When I awoke, I made my way back to the office to check my email and found a message from the client.  To my surprise, they had managed to remedy the situation….  I sat there completely taken aback as I was reminded of the scripture that God had given me….

As I had despaired and slept, God Himself was at work on my behalf.  When my strength had utterly failed, His strength had completely taken over.  My Father was there and He had calmed the storm.

I was struck with the importance of the moment and the lesson God was teaching me.  He was WITH me.  God, the creator of the galaxies, was WITH me.  In every season, situation and circumstance God was WITH me.  In this, a bridge was built from my intellect to my heart.   I decided at that moment that I was going to build a “pile of stones” in my mind.  A memorial to God’s faithfulness and provision.  I did this so that when I found myself in a similar place, later down the road of life, I could mentally go back, sit and remember.  Over the years I have gone back many times.  Do you know what?  Mentally being there still helps calm whatever storm I may find myself in.  When the rain is pouring and the thunder is raging, this is where I will sit, giving the situation to God and waiting for His help.   This is the place where many spiritual workouts take place and where my faith is bolstered.

I have a friend who says, “suffering is a choice” (within the context of how we respond to hardships and challenges).  I love this.  How do we respond when we find ourselves face down in the valleys of life?  You have a choice.  Do you allow the despair to settle over you like a cold, wet blanket or do you look for God?

I would encourage you to consciously remind yourself of the mountaintop.  Mentally go back to the times when God pulled you through.  You may want to keep a journal of these significant moments (this is what I do), so that you have something physical to go back to, in order to be encouraged.  Over the course of time, you will be reminded of the countless moments that your Father, who has your back, has shown up and that He STILL fights for you.

“When you are going through something hard and wonder where God is, remember the teacher is always quiet during a test” but remember His words:

“When you go through deep waters, I will be with you.”  Isaiah 43:2

Keep looking up!