Evaluating Life, Among The Dead

“What we do in life, echoes in eternity.”  Russell Crowe (Gladiator)

If you’ve ever been interested in psychology then you’re probably familiar with the “Myers Briggs Personality Types.”  I’ve always tested as an INFJ, which has the illustrious distinction of being 0.5% of all males on the face of the earth….I’ll let you decide if that is a good thing or not.  😀  INFJ’s are known as the most social of the introverts.  We love our time with those close to us and diving headfirst into the deep waters of conversation.  However as with all introverts, while being social can be a great time, it is also tiring and we need to take time to retreat to “lonely places” in order to refill our tanks and re-charge before heading out again.

“Yet the news about him spread all the more, so that crowds of people came to hear him and be healed of their sicknesses.  But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.”  Luke 5:15 & 16

Once I reached the age when my mom would allow me to take off on my bike around the area I grew up in, one of the places I would escape to was the local cemetery.  Before you think “How morbid,” it really wasn’t at all in my mind.  I think that what drew me to that particular place was a combination of my affinity for B movies involving zombies and vampires along with the fact that it was one of the most tranquil places that I could find.

I can remember looking around at the various plots, thinking about how each one of those tombstones and grave markers was a representation of what was once a living and breathing life.  I would reflect on what type of person they might have been and I assumed that if a family was grouped together, they must have really loved each other while they were alive.  For that reason, I would usually choose to sit in the midst of a family, as if remnants of that love would still be hanging in the air around me.  I would sometimes observe the oldest grave in the family plot and imagine the grieving individuals standing where I was, remembering their loved one.  Would they visit daily or weekly?  I couldn’t help but wonder if at those moments, might they have processed their own mortality and made the connection that one day they would be laid to rest in the exact same place?

“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”  Psalm 90:12

I still visit cemeteries from time to time and I still appreciate the perspective that it gives me.  I recognize that if I live the average life span, I already have more years behind me than ahead of me.  This thought isn’t depressing to me.  I’m grateful and hopeful!  As long as I draw breath, I have purpose here.  You see, the most important mark on any tombstone is that dash between the year you were born and the year you transition into eternity.  That simple dash represents your life and everything you do with it.

“What is your life?  You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”  James 4:14 (b)

How are you stewarding the life God has blessed you with?  How are you investing your time, treasure and talents?  Are you spending your days worrying, being critical towards yourself and others and following the crowd?  Or are you setting yourself above the fray, in order to pour into the lives of others and reflect the Hope that is in you (through Christ’s work in your life)?  We may not think about this much but as a Christ follower we are all missionaries wherever God has placed us.  In His sovereign wisdom, He has put us in this specific place, in this specific time in His story to be a part of His work in the world.  The circle of influence we have along with the relationships that surround us in our day to day lives….this is our mission field.  This is our calling.

I am reminded of the scene at the end of “Saving Private Ryan”:

The aged James Ryan (addressing Captain Miller’s grave):  “My family is with me today.  They wanted to come with me.  To be honest with you, I wasn’t sure how I’d feel coming back here.  Every day I think about what you said to me that day on the bridge.  I tried to live my life the best that I could.  I hope that was enough.  I hope that, at least in your eyes, I’ve earned what you have done for me….”

Take stock of your days.  Even if you’re young (in the world’s definition of the word), your days are fleeting.  Make them count.  Do good for the sake of doing good.  Be kind.  Stay humble.  Practice thankfulness.  Glorify God with how you live your life.  Talk to Jesus.  Give more than you take and if you’re blessed with much, give much!  Not just with your finances but with your time and with your love.  Check your heart, your motivation and intentions.  Don’t just do it for the tax write off.    SHINE….as you were meant and designed to do.

“He has shown you, o mortal, what is good.  And what does the Lord require of you?  To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”  Mich 6:8

“Every man dies but not every man really lives.”  Mel Gibson (Braveheart)

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